The theme given by Ruchie & Sandy’s Bake Studio:  Which Resolution you take every year and never complete, What and who are the reason behind.

I’m a S.A.H.M, and far from perfect. I think I’m doing an okay job. But, each year I plan to better it.  But, does that really happen?

One of my resolution, since many years had been to become that impeccable home maker, mother, cook and  wife who knows it all.

To give you a better picture of what I mean, let me introduce you to, two ladies 

Do you remember Bree Van De Kam  from The Desperate Housewives? 

Or Monica from Friends?

Both of them are a whizz, at cleaning, cooking, in short impeccable homemakers!


The way Bree, serves  freshly baked croissants for breakfast in bed & still looks like a million bucks?  Yes that’s what I want!

Monica…well, if I could  become just 10%,  like her, my house would be spotless! Too bad, I don’t sleep-clean.

Ofcourse I  can clean, cook, & organise. I’m not living in a mess. I just  want to make my home more organised, you know, like Bree & Monica!

So my resolutions, which have been failing are to be like Bree or Monica. 

Why I Think They Fail ? 

Easy, I try to cook a fancy diner every other day, & when I’m not cooking I’m organising or cleaning.

It does get a little overwhelming, & I take a days break. 

With me, the break, breaks the resolution. It’s not anyone’s fault. It’s all me.
It’s the break. I flee and never come back.

So 2015 & 2016 didn’t really wholly organise my stuff, but I will admit that lots of the kids stuff toys are in one big place. And, not on the couch, bed, drawer. 

 Maybe, this year I should decide to emulate,  just one of them, & who knows, I might pull it off till March or even April if  I don’t take a break?
But, at the moment I’m almost convinced that  I’m more like Rachel, you know, Monica’s friend?

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