Self Love E – Enjoy A to Z Challenge #atozchallenge
My husband travels a lot. Like a. lot. And, not that we are together all the time, but I used to feel very bored when he would be out. We both enjoyed watching a lot of shows, on DVD’s even before Netflix was in vogue. That was our way of enjoyment, daily.
Slowly, I realized that it’s ok for him to enjoy where he travels, and similarly for me too.
It’s ok to go for a movie, visit a mall and binge watch a series when he’s not around.
Our love for ourselves should be big enough to NOT feel guilty or sad when we enjoy without our spouse.
It really is okay. Yes, we both are married, etc, but then we need to “be”
I will admit, that I used to feel very lonely, sad and what not. But, with time I got over the “enjoying only with him” factor. In fact he always encouraged me to enjoy.
So, ladies here is to being ourselves and three cheers for the men who do not feel insecure when ladies enjoy.
Some TV shows (Girly Ones)
Some Girly Movies
Kissing Booth (no judging)
The Ugly Truth
P.S I love you
I will talk about guilt, in one of the later posts, but please know that there is absolutely NO REASON to feel guilty for enjoying.
Enjoying your life, your day at home, or maybe a spa day.
It’s always fun to do things as a couple, but as the song goes
“Everybody needs a little time away,” I heard her say, “from each other.”
“Even lover needs a holiday far away from each other.”
Hold me now. It’s hard for me to say I’m sorry. I just want you to stay.
Did you check out the post on D, it’s a funny one. Do check out here.
Do you think I made a valid point? Please leave your honest thoughts!